Advice on career & work life.

Is it appropriate to give a card to someone who was made redundant?

Jess Lucas suggests it's not typically appropriate to give cards for redundancy and that an official letter might be a nicer gesture instead.

Should businesses offer perks like gym memberships to staff?

Rather than dictating perks like gym memberships (which imply control over employees' personal choices), consider giving staff the equivalent cash value and letting them decide how to spend it, which better respects their autonomy.

What's the etiquette for escalating a prank war?

Tommy argues pranks work like 'compound interest' — a retaliatory prank needs to be bigger than the original to actually cancel it out, otherwise the score isn't settled.

What should you avoid giving a pregnant partner for a sore throat?

Avoid anaesthetic-based mouthwash/gargle products and throat lozenges, as the anaesthetic ingredient is not advised during pregnancy.

Should I quit my job to pursue my passion project?

Tommy says this kind of advice is inherently privileged and context-dependent; he discusses a real conversation where someone wanted to reduce hours to pursue a passion project, noting that generic advice like 'just quit' ignores individual financial runway and circumstances.

How much financial runway do I need before taking a risk on a business or passion project?

Tommy argues that standard startup advice (having months of savings/runway) isn't realistic for most people, and that this advice can become an excuse to avoid pursuing dreams; he notes he and Josh started their business with just $2,000 each and no computer.

What's the best response when someone asks whether they should follow their passion full-time?

Josh says his honest advice is simply 'if you want to, do it,' acknowledging there's a real chance the person may discover it's not for them once they try.

How can you keep experiencing 'fun' or novel moments as you get older?

Josh suggests seeking out new experiences with different people (e.g., playing golf with new people) and trying to reframe everyday moments (like getting up early) as exciting rather than just routine, since the novelty of any new habit fades quickly.

How do you keep going on a long project when the initial excitement fades?

Tommy references a book's idea that every career has ups and downs, and that people often quit when they lose the initial feeling of excitement without realizing that's why they're quitting; the advice is essentially 'don't quit' and recognize there can be multiple 'acts' or phases ahead.

How should office etiquette around bodily functions be handled?

There's no formal rule about burping or similar behavior at work; it comes down to 'reading the room' — acting one way with close colleagues/friends and differently in more public or professional settings.

How do you manage feeling overly hot or agitated before work?

Josh says he tries to stay self-aware about becoming agitated when hot or dehydrated, and will proactively buy water or rely on a smart aircon app to cool the office before he even arrives, to avoid being 'the worst version' of himself.

Should you buy a mechanical keyboard for an office environment?

Josh and Tommy conclude that while mechanical keyboards feel and sound great, they're inappropriate for shared office spaces because the noise is disruptive to others.

Should you tell your employer before going on a reality show?

Matty recommends being upfront with employers about going on a reality show rather than disappearing, based on his own experience telling his Peugeot manager before leaving.

What's an easy fallback gift if you're put on the spot?

Everyday household items like an indoor plant, a cushion, or even office supplies can work as a thoughtful-enough last-minute gift if nothing else is available.

How should you manage caffeine withdrawal after quitting coffee?

Josh suggests easing off rather than quitting cold turkey, planning to keep having a couple of cups of tea a day partly for the mental habit of still having some caffeine.

How do you build internal team buy-in for big, ambitious ideas?

Stay connected to the day-to-day front line rather than only operating at a high level, share big ideas incrementally rather than all at once, and consistently link proposed changes back to the organization's unchanging 'true north' so people can see the logic and get on board.

How should leaders balance remote work freedom with team cohesion when returning to a new normal?

Preserve the 'space' for thinking and idea generation gained from remote/distanced work, while also maintaining 'proximity'—frequent connection and unity with the team—since disunity can paralyze a business.

How do you get a project management or productivity tool to actually stick within a team?

The tool needs full adoption—every single team member must interface all of their work through it, not just part of the team, otherwise it fails to become the system of record.

How should you reflect on a decade of your life (like turning 30)?

Spend time reeling off what you're proud of from the decade, then identify things you feel you haven't done or achieved yet, covering work, personal life, and friendships separately.

How do you deal with cravings or urges when quitting something like alcohol or your phone?

Josh frames it as a cost-benefit analysis: removing a habit forces you to sit with uncomfortable feelings rather than escape them, and while both paths are hard, confronting the feelings directly is ultimately more rewarding long-term, even if it doesn't feel that way in the moment.

Should you get into comedy for the money?

Tisdell argues getting into comedy for money is the wrong motivation ('if you get into comedy for money, then you're a fuckwit'); she reframed her own ambitions after losing paid work in 2020, realizing the career isn't fundamentally about money for her.

How should a business respond during a crisis like COVID-19?

Cut out panic-inducing news consumption, focus only on the things within your control (content, hiring, product focus), build a plan with a trusted mentor, and get team buy-in before executing.

How should a leader handle failure or bad decisions?

Take hardcore ownership of outcomes even if partly out of your control, acknowledge the 'elephant in the room' openly with the team, learn from it, and move on quickly rather than dwelling on it.

How can you avoid falling for a phone scam or phone prank?

Don't engage directly on the call; instead text back asking who it is, and if they claim to be from a company, ask them to email official information rather than discussing details over the phone.

What makes a prank actually work once the target suspects something?

Once someone is onto a prank, the prankers should commit without introducing further lies or excuses; adding lies (like why a GoPro was left out) undermines credibility and gives the prank away.

How do you manage ambition and avoid feeling stuck in a regional/stepping-stone role?

Focus on being excellent in your current show or role, because that focus is what creates the opportunity for the next step, rather than fixating on escaping the current position.

What's a practical tip for using wireless microphones in live productions?

Use fresh batteries for every show rather than rechargeables, since rechargeable batteries' charge indicators can be misleading and they degrade in reliability.

What does 'indicative' mean when used in a business quote or budget?

Use 'indicative' to describe a rough, non-committal budget or figure given to a client — it signals the number could move up or down without being a firm commitment, and sounds more professional than 'ballpark' in a deck.

How can you make a police report sound urgent enough without lying?

Josh suggests you want to paint a picture that sounds about 10% scarier than reality to get police to respond, but stresses you should never actually lie to Triple Zero.

How can I get discounted food delivery from local Australian businesses?

Use Uber Eats promo codes like 'AU support local' which rotate themed discounts (e.g. 30% off Mexican restaurants one day), reportedly with Uber Eats absorbing the commission rather than the business losing out.

How do you deal with an ant infestation without excessive killing?

Take away accessible food sources, let the ants retreat, then seal the entry gap; alternatively use passive products like ant bait stations rather than spraying, which feels like a more targeted, less indiscriminate approach.

What should you do if, looking back, something you did feels cringeworthy?

Tommy suggests that if you look back on past behaviour and find it cringey, you should have gotten out of it when you first noticed that feeling, rather than continuing.

How can I get better at 'managing up' a boss like Josh?

Anticipate what the person wants and needs, plan for it and have actions done before they ask — stay one step ahead rather than waiting to be told.

What's the best way to resolve a lost-item issue like missing office keys?

Don't rely on email alone — call and speak to a real person immediately so you feel more in control and get a faster resolution, rather than waiting and hoping it resolves itself.

How should you leave a company you're deeply attached to?

Go about it considerately rather than dramatically; speak directly to leadership, give ample notice, and finish out important projects so you leave the company in the best possible position.

How can managers set healthy boundaries with their team?

Avoid holding employees to the same intense personal work standards you set for yourself; use tools like delayed-send email triggers so messages don't hit colleagues outside of normal hours.

How should leaders manage remote teams during a crisis like COVID-19?

Be mindful that team members have varying home environments and circumstances that affect their productivity, and be flexible and understanding rather than assuming uniform working conditions.

Is it ever too late to pursue a music career?

Pete Murray argues age doesn't determine whether you can succeed in music—if you write a good song it will find its way—pointing to his own path of starting guitar at 22 and breaking through commercially at 32.

What should someone in entertainment do during an industry shutdown or downtime?

Use the time to expand your knowledge base — take online courses, research how film budgets and production roles work, watch and read scripts, and start writing your own material rather than waiting idly for work to return.

Is there job security in an acting or entertainment career?

There is no stability — like professional sport, you have to practise constantly (perform, busk, audition) without guaranteed pay, and only pursue it if you genuinely love the craft itself, not just the idea of success.

How can you learn a skill or trade without formal training?

Ask people who do the job lots of questions — most people love explaining their expertise, and Shane says he became a lighting designer and eventually a university lecturer in it purely by asking endless questions on set.

How should you think about pursuing a long-term creative career or goal?

Focus on enjoying the journey, not just the destination — like enjoying the flight to Paris as much as the holiday itself — because fixating only on the end goal makes the inevitable setbacks harder to endure.

Should I claim my home office as a business owner using the actual-cost method?

Be cautious claiming a percentage of home running costs (interest, utilities) as a business owner, because this creates a capital gains tax liability on that percentage of the home's growth in value when sold; using the simplified 80 cents/hour method as a personal deduction avoids this CGT exposure.

How can I stand out when applying for a job?

Create something tailored directly to the person offering the job rather than a generic application — a creative, personal video or reel that most other applicants won't bother making can leave a strong impression even if you don't get that specific job.

How should a workplace handle an employee mistake, like sending a wrong discount code or exposing emails?

Give the person a warning first and have a direct conversation about it (in person, Zoom, or similar), with the severity of the issue determining how official or escalated that conversation needs to be.

How do you stop accidentally oversharing private information on a podcast or in public?

Before telling someone something private, say 'NFB, not for broadcast' and get explicit agreement; if you later want to share it publicly, you must negotiate that separately rather than assuming it's fair game after the fact.

How do I show up as a thought leader or leader without seeming tone-deaf or self-serving during a crisis?

Walk the line between acknowledging real pain/anxiety and holding space for optimism and possibility; avoid both doom-mongering and toxic positivity, and check that your public content is genuinely serving others rather than self-promotion.

What should someone do first if they lose their job or business?

Allow yourself a period of acceptance and grief rather than panicking into the first available option; use the time to reassess whether your previous path was even right for you before deciding what's next.

What should someone new to working from home watch out for?

Recognize that working from home requires learned time-management skills and structure (e.g., set Zoom check-in times) because it's easy to be unproductive without the structure of an office.

How should you approach sales outreach to clients during a crisis?

Back off from routine check-ins and follow-ups with prospective clients, recognizing that many people are struggling, rather than pushing a sales process as usual.

What's the right age to travel or take big risks with no responsibilities?

Tommy and Dave agree that if you have no responsibilities, that's the age (around 22) you should travel or make big changes, because once you're older you accumulate commitments that make it harder to leave.

What's a workaround for communal kitchen item disputes at the office?

Consider giving each team member a set budget to buy and store their own cutlery/plates/bowls in a personal cupboard or section, similar to how some share houses handle pantry space, rather than relying on shared communal items.

What can a workplace do to solve a messy communal kitchen problem?

The group brainstorms solutions including giving someone clear ownership of the kitchen, establishing and posting clear rules, hiring a cleaner, rotating responsibility via roster, using signage (though ambiguous labels can confuse people), and even installing a camera to track who leaves messes.

What matters most when raising kids, according to Richard Janssen?

Richard says the key is making sure children are respectful, understand the true values of life, and are happy doing what they're doing.

What's the difference between hiring staff and having a true business partner?

Staff will push back but ultimately execute what you decide; a real partner requires you to justify and sell your ideas to each other as equals — know which one you actually want before seeking collaboration.

How do you manage a team as a business grows from a handful of people to dozens?

Founders must learn to delegate and shift from being hands-on operators to fostering passion and culture across the team; building perks and a relaxed environment helps cultivate genuine investment in the business, not just the role.

What should you do if you want to drop out of school to pursue a passion?

Pursue the passion, but don't skip finishing school (VCE) entirely — it's undervalued at the time but important as a fallback, so balance following a dream with completing foundational education.

How do you keep short email replies from seeming rude?

Be mindful that short responses can come across as dismissive even if the sender is just busy; try to appreciate quick replies rather than reading negative tone into brevity.

How do you sustain motivation when building a content business?

Stop and celebrate wins (screaming, high-fiving, hugging) when they happen rather than only focusing on the next grind, since external validation like follower growth is fuel to keep going.

How do you deal with chasing a long-held career goal or 'destination'?

Shelton advises essentially forgetting the fixed destination because so many uncontrollable factors can prevent reaching it, and focusing instead on enjoying the present moment and the work itself.

Do I need a journalism/media degree to break into the industry in 2020?

A degree may not be essential anymore; consider getting an internship at a publisher and working your way up instead, while building durable human skills (creativity, empathy, problem-solving) that technology won't replace.

How should I improve as a writer trying to break into media?

Read and consume content constantly — reading great and even bad work teaches you how to write better and keeps you current on what's happening.

How should you treat people who choose not to drink at social events?

Tommy states his personal rule is to fully support anyone who says they don't want to drink, not pressure them, and help make it easier rather than give them grief about it.

How do I know if I should change careers or follow my passion?

Recognise that job security isn't guaranteed as you age or your body changes, so pursue what you love now rather than regretting not having tried, even if it means financial risk.

Should aspiring journalists study journalism at university?

Anjali Rao advises against studying journalism alone, recommending a complementary degree such as psychology or law so you bring a distinct perspective to reporting and have a fallback qualification as the industry changes rapidly.

When should a business owner end a failing initiative or relationship?

Decide and act early rather than stringing people along — waiting for things to 'come good next month' only lets the financial and people problems grow bigger; doing the right thing by staff and partners means calling it early, even though it feels less 'nice' in the moment.

How should former radio people position themselves when applying for jobs outside radio?

Reframe your resume around transferable skills like producing, content strategy and communications rather than 'radio announcer', because outside employers often don't recognise the breadth of skills radio people actually have.

How can I be more effective in interviews or new situations?

Go in confident but not overconfident, aim to 'wow the room,' and ask questions—even ones you already know the answer to—to show you care and are engaged.

How do you break a bad habit like excessive porn use or drinking?

Treat habits as patterns that need to be deliberately broken; fully quitting for a period resets your relationship with the thing before deciding whether to reintroduce it.

What makes someone a good DJ?

Treat your limited material (vinyl/crates) as precious by curating only the best content, assume the crowd has already heard the biggest hits, and hold back ('make your Bs your As') so you can still win the night without relying on an obvious hit.

What should founders look for when hiring staff?

Prioritise cultural fit and shared mission over clock-watching; judge employees by output rather than hours worked, and be upfront that the role requires dedication beyond a standard 9-to-5 if that's what the business needs.

How do comedians turn personal experiences into usable material?

Ash filters real-life situations by asking himself whether he would actually tell the story on stage; experiences remain good material up until a certain point (e.g., just before paid sex), after which he feels it loses comedic value and he pulls back.

Should you work for free early in a creative career?

Yes — if you have no track record or proven skills, you can't expect to be paid like someone experienced, so taking on free work (as Basil did by offering to film Jake and Amir for free) is a reasonable way to build a portfolio and get a chance.

How should you choose between a higher-paying job and one you're passionate about?

Dan Ilic says he generally picks love over money when forced to choose, prioritizing the ability to create good work he's proud of over financial stability, even though it sometimes leaves him broke.

How do you decide whether to leave a stable job tied to community and identity (like being a pastor)?

Take time to make the decision — talk to many people for their wisdom, journal your thoughts, and revisit those journals to check for consistency of feeling before committing; once the decision is made, trust it and don't look back.

What matters most for a happy long-term relationship?

The most important choice in life is who you marry; choose a partner who isn't a 'ball breaker' and gives you freedom, and be willing to hear honest feedback (like about drinking habits) without resentment.

How should newcomers behave when trying to break into media/entertainment while working support roles?

Don't use your foot-in-the-door position (e.g., as a producer) to immediately ask for a talent role; tread water, do good work, and only share your ambitions with a trusted mentor rather than people you've just met.

What should regional radio presenters do to stand out and advance their careers?

Keep going, make original content, scare and challenge yourself, maintain a healthy fear of mediocrity, annoy your bosses, constantly ask for feedback, and don't be afraid to self-promote ('be a PR whore') rather than staying stagnant for years.

How do you deal with guilt about chasing career dreams while also wanting to be a present parent?

Wilkins advises not feeling bad about wanting both a career and a good family life, noting that pursuing his own dreams ultimately made him better able to be present for his children, and that struggling with this balance is universal.

What's a good guiding principle for living an honest, uncomplicated life?

Always tell the truth, because then you never have to remember what you said — lies compound and eventually catch up with you.

How do I figure out my own values instead of following generic advice?

Stand close to a mirror like a 3-year-old would, strip away your job title, and ask what actually makes you shine; build your own 'recipe' rather than copying others' because everyone's needs differ.

What career advice would you give students worried about exams and career paths?

Don't pick a path just because it seems like 'the future' (e.g. coding) — instead identify what you're actually good at and your competitive advantage, get a diversity of experiences including working for others and having bad bosses, and commit consistently to a creative project to build momentum.

How do I find my professional 'brand' or niche?

Don't box yourself into one lane — identify your underlying 'superpower' (for Zoe, writing) and let it feed through everything you do, whatever the specific project or medium.

How should you handle family members who aren't supportive of an unconventional career choice?

Do what you want anyway, understanding that parents' lack of enthusiasm usually comes from a place of wanting security and safety for their kids, not malice; eventually they get on board.

Should an aspiring radio or media presenter start their career in a regional market?

Kel Wolfe says that if he had his time again, he would not spend years at regional stations; instead he'd join a street team or take a digital content producer role in a metro market like Melbourne, because being physically present and known to decision-makers matters far more than sending demo tapes remotely, and he would start a podcast of his own sooner.

How do you keep generating fresh personal content/ideas for a daily show?

Deliberately do things outside your comfort zone (attend awkward events, try new things) because routine, comfortable choices won't generate anything new to talk about.

How do I start defining my personal or business brand?

Think about what you want to be known for or remembered for, what phone call you'd love to get in an ideal world, and build a hypothetical website exercise (colour scheme, tone, offerings, 'secret sauce') to clarify positioning before building anything real.

How do I know when to leave a job to start my own thing?

Don't put pressure on yourself to have a fully formed plan immediately; give yourself a defined period (e.g., 12 months) to simply try things and see what emerges, while recognising that self-discipline and well-being management become critical once self-employed.

How should you present a creative project to potential investors or collaborators?

Don't present a fully finished idea and ask only for money; present an outline and invite people to join the journey so they feel genuine ownership and investment in the work (the 'IKEA effect').

What should you do if someone is badly injured and panicking in an emergency?

Stay calm, assess the wound, apply pressure with a cloth, tell the injured person to keep holding and squeezing the wound tight, and remind them to breathe while determining the best hospital to go to.

How should a workplace handle the risk of future accidents?

Keep a proper first aid kit on hand in the office, as pointed out during the emergency when there wasn't an adequate kit available.

How do I handle feeling isolated after a big career change or move?

Accept there's no shortcut to contentment — go through the process of finding your own tribe, make a conscious choice to pursue meaningful work even if painful, and stay connected to international networks through regular travel.

How should you interact with someone who is on drugs or homeless on the street?

Avoid being aggressive; a calm, non-confrontational approach is safer, though directly engaging (saying hi/how are you) can sometimes lead to unwanted interactions, so there's no single right approach and it depends on the situation.

How do you start building a new career/platform after leaving a long corporate job?

Write down what you know and just start putting pen to paper — blogging or podcasting to collect your thoughts can organically create relationship and business opportunities, even if that's not the primary goal.

How should you respond when someone asks you for career advice about getting into musical theatre?

Be honest rather than purely motivational: emphasize that hard work, persistence, dedication and mindset matter more than raw talent, and let the honesty prompt an internal conversation so people genuinely weigh whether they want to pursue a tough, highly competitive industry rather than just hyping them up.

How can you reduce personal body odour at work?

Apply deodorant immediately after showering rather than waiting hours into the day, since delaying application increases the chance of smelling by the time you reach the office.

How do you price specialist trade work like custom wrought iron?

Derek says pricing is partly based on perceived client wealth ('what they drive') — charging premium clients more for the same craftsmanship while politely turning away price-sensitive customers looking for a discount from the manufacturer.

How should you talk about plans or opportunities that aren't yet confirmed?

Wait until things are secured before announcing them publicly, since prematurely talking up an opportunity that falls through forces awkward conversations later when people ask how it went.

How can I avoid being misread when communicating via Slack or text?

Pause before sending messages, mentally say the message out loud to check tone, and pair asynchronous text communication (like Slack) with actual voice/video conversations (like Zoom) rather than relying on text alone.

How should you approach a cold email when seeking a job or business opportunity?

Include a personal note referencing the specific person or company rather than a generic greeting like 'Dear Sir/Madam'; some level of research/stalking the company is expected.

How should a creator build financial security before going full-time on content creation?

Build a runway of one to two years of savings, estimate your annual basic living costs, and set a firm time period (e.g. two years) to commit fully before giving up freelance or client work.

How do you get on PR/media invite lists without an established platform?

Tommy suggests simply reaching out directly to PR contacts and media lists under a professional-sounding title (he used a self-made 'Triple M roving reporter' signature) to build relationships and get added to invite lists, even without official backing.

How do you know when it's time to leave a job you're unhappy in?

Gemma suggests that once you've woken up realising the work no longer suits you and you're not performing at your best, it's better to leave sooner rather than waiting, both for your own sake and for the business's.

How can I avoid unwanted chit-chat at a desk job without seeming rude?

Physically wear headphones at your desk as a signal that you're focused, which tends to deter people from interrupting for conversation.

How should a shared household/office handle security camera footage to avoid conflict?

Agree on a rule that camera footage can be viewed any time for general oversight, but it can never be pulled up to 'win' or settle an argument between the people sharing the space.

How do you build a media career without a traditional path?

Say yes to small opportunities — take the meeting, do the favour interview, host the low-budget show — because even if most of it isn't perfect, it can lead to connections and unexpected opportunities later.

Should I take an unconventional or less obvious career role to reach my goal?

Consider that taking a technical or 'less-trodden' role, even if not immediately appealing, can build practical understanding and empathy that benefits you later in a producing or leadership role, and it doesn't require a multi-year commitment—meaningful learning can happen within months.

How should a new business decide where to spend money?

Invest only where it actually moves the needle; keep the business lean and underleveraged at first, and avoid spending on things that don't have a real impact just because they seem nice to have.

How can I be more productive without working longer hours?

Block out specific times for focused work (deep work) rather than multitasking or context-switching, since work tends to expand to fill whatever time you allocate to it (Parkinson's Law); setting limitations, like not being allowed to work at night, forces you to get things done during the day.

How do I avoid saying yes to jobs or commitments that don't matter to me?

Create a filter based on your core values and priorities (e.g., family first) and cross-check your actions and decisions against that filter consistently, rather than defaulting to saying yes because you think it's the only path to success or money.

What's the best way to break into radio when you're young and starting out?

Get as much time and experience as possible wherever you can, even on an unlistened community station like SYN FM — doing a show every day for months builds experience regardless of audience size or effort level.

Does going to a regional radio station guarantee a bigger city job later?

No — regional work refines your skills but program directors hire whoever is most talented at the time; being the 'oddball' with a distinct project (like your own podcast or comedy act) may stand out more than following the standard regional path.

How should partners handle decision-making in a long-term relationship?

Josh suggests that in a long-term relationship, decisions should be joint, aiming for alignment and compromise, which he believes makes both partners better people and keeps choices mindful rather than automatic.

How can brands create authentic video content?

Ensure the style and tone of a video matches the actual personality and credibility of the people involved and the platform it's shared on, rather than copying another creator's format or over-scripting messaging.

How should I weigh a big opportunity against existing personal plans like travel?

Recognise that an opportunity isn't guaranteed or 'set in stone', so don't let it completely derail your existing plans or raise your anxiety; consider what level of anxiety you actually want to live with.

How do you succeed early in a radio or media career?

Just show up consistently and perform regardless of how you're feeling, since professionalism in the moment matters more than personal circumstances.

How do you keep a long-term audience happy as a content creator?

Expect and plan for your content to evolve as you age, because an audience that joined at one life stage will often grow up alongside you; trying to stay the same persona forever (e.g. still doing late-night party content at 48) risks becoming stale.

Do commercial radio/media audiences need jokes dumbed down to be entertained?

Respect the audience's intelligence; people want an interesting, honestly told story more than an obvious 'zinger' joke, and treating listeners as smart builds more genuine connection.

How should you quit a job gracefully?

Set an internal 'trigger point' — decide in advance that if a certain recurring issue happens again, that's the moment you'll resign — so the exit avoids relitigating problems and sidesteps a drawn-out hard conversation, especially with people you respect.

What's an alternative way to handle a hard conversation about leaving a job or relationship?

Instead of letting tension build toward a blow-up, calmly name the hard conversation ahead of time (e.g., 'I'm finishing up') and have it directly, which can produce a different, less combustible energy.

What's the key lesson for handling a breakup?

Listen to yourself and trust what you truly feel and know is right, even though ending a relationship and the resulting loneliness is hard — because staying in a toxic relationship does more lasting damage to your mind and body.

How can frequent flyers get extra checked baggage allowance?

Consider signing up as an APRA-registered musician (reportedly cheap, around $3) since some airlines like Virgin give musicians extra baggage allowance per flight.

Should I change the locks when moving into a new rental or share house?

Tommy recommends changing the front door lock at every new place you move into (unless you personally know and trust the previous owners), as a peace-of-mind measure against burglary, based on his own experience of having his laptop and hard drives stolen in a Bondi share house.

Why does being dishonest on a show (like using fake callers) hurt more than it seems?

Josh and Tommy argue that even small-scale dishonesty, like staged radio callers, creates a flow-on distrust effect — once an audience catches you being dishonest in one small way, they start questioning everything else on the show.

How should you approach topics you feel polarised or uninformed about?

Ask yourself what the other side's point of view is and genuinely listen to it, rather than only consuming media that already aligns with your position; recognise you might change your mind after hearing the other side out.

What's the risk when trying to 'go freelance' or start your own thing?

Don't freelance with 'one eye open' on job listings — commit fully; otherwise you're just unemployed with a nicer title, not truly picking yourself.

How should a new creator compete with big established media companies?

Don't try to emulate the big players — figure out your specific point of difference and use the advantage of being small and nimble rather than trying to be a 'big ship.'

How should you handle criticism when creating content publicly?

Tommy says the process of posting, reflecting on what's good or bad, taking some feedback, then moving on and doing it again is itself a 'winning process' that leads to growth over time.