How do I deal with feeling nihilistic about issues like climate change?
Bring meaning back through gratitude for small things, and try to hold both scepticism about the future and genuine hopefulness simultaneously (metamodernism / ironic sincerity) rather than collapsing into either pure nihilism or naive eternalism.
Should I brand myself as an 'expert' or 'thought leader' online?
Be wary of superficial branding (bios, logos, polished claims of expertise); real authority comes from the work itself speaking for you, and it's healthier to stay curious, loosen your grip on a fixed identity, and let your actions demonstrate growth rather than claiming mastery.
How should I pick a word to guide my year instead of a New Year's resolution?
Avoid eternal, generic values like love, happiness or balance; instead reflect on your personal patterns, tensions, hidden commitments and growth edges from the past year, and choose a word with enough 'fuck yeah' social stickiness that friends will remember and check in with you about through the year.
How do I balance pursuing a business/income with living an 'infinite game' philosophy?
Acknowledge the tension honestly ('both-ending' it) rather than resolving it — offer generosity where possible (e.g., free access for those who can't afford it), and question whether constant hustling to earn more to buy more is actually necessary, favouring simpler sources of meaning like gratitude and time with friends.
How do you know if a psychologist is a good fit?
Look for whether you feel comfortable and can open up naturally with them, and be wary if they identify strongly with one rigid school of thought rather than listening with curiosity and offering new perspectives.
What's the best way to prepare for public speaking?
Avoid over-rehearsing; know your material and themes well but don't practice a fixed script, because practiced delivery makes you hyper-aware when live reality deviates from the plan, whereas staying unpracticed keeps you present.